When young women are sexually assaulted, we question their pasts and critique their clothing choices, yet rarely ask their attackers to simply be accountable for having no self-control, and no respect for the humanity of the girls they’ve violated.
When middle school girls post half–naked photos of themselves on Instagram, we vilify and ostracize them as cheap and easy, while ignoring the dozens of young men who mindlessly vote their approval each time, who feed the insecurity, and who perpetuate each degrading act with the click of a mouse.
When high school girls get jobs at chain restaurants, which require them to expose their body parts to strangers over trays of nachos, we bemoan their lack of humility and class, yet never question the thousands of men who fill these eateries every day; many with daughters the same age as the ones they ogle.
When women embarrassingly writhe on poles for a few sweaty dollar bills, in dimly lit bars ironically called “Gentlemen’s Clubs”, we heap insults and judgement on them, yet let the many married men who pay both the dancers and the mortgage each month, come and go without blemish or critique.
Sooner or later, we need to stop letting boys be boys, and we need to challenge them to be men.
Sooner or later, we need to pull them out of their perpetual adolescence and into adulthood, and ask them to evenly carry the weight of sexual standards.
Sooner or later, we need to show our young men that the they can actually raise the moral temperature in sexual situations, not reflect them."
COULD NOT EVEN MAKE IT THRU THE FIRST 3 MINUTES OF HANNIBAL SEASON 2 WITHOUT SHITTIN MYSELF
can’t wait to graduate and actually spend weekends enjoying the weather outside instead of being indoors glued to a computer screen crying about homework
oh man the first season finale of elementary was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo satisfying
i told so many ppl i couldn’t hang out this weekend bc i had work to do and i do actually have work to do but i’m just skating instead
Anonymous asked: who's your favorite character ? bulma or vegeta ? or maybe bra ?
actually, i hated vegeta with a passion as a kid. the guy terrified me to the bone. now i obviously like him better (probably realized how much of a nerd he is), but my favorite character still is 18, hands down
i can even pinpoint the second i became her hardcore fan actually
I SKATED OUT DOORS
I FELL A LOT!!!!!
IS THIS WHAT ADULTHOOD FEELS LIKE MOTHER